
I made the grueling decision to leave Florence only 6 weeks after arriving instead of staying the intended 3 months because….well, because it was the right thing to do. I would have been happy meandering through those winding, cobblestone streets, talking Italian with the locals, eating my pasta and drinking my wine forever! But I would have been completely irresponsible too. Seeing that I could not get a real job there to support myself, and watching my money basically evaporate on things I don’t really need, like gorgeous pocketbooks, scarves, boots…more wine…well….I started to feel gluttonous. Part of this journey – yes, of course it’s ALL about me :), but a huge part about me is my goal to get fit and healthy. And that clearly was not going to happen in Florence. In all honesty, I actually lost some weight over the past 6 months of traveling due to the amount of walking I was doing! But not enough, and I was/am determined as I reach that milestone big birthday that is quickly approaching to change my lifestyle and become a fit, healthy, active, nutrition-conscious, aware person. So…my big girl pants are getting very worn in…I researched where I might make that happen and came up with North America’s majestic Northwest.
Vancouver was on “the list” – a beautiful city surrounded by water seems to be my theme. I flew in on a rainy day but still was wowed at the landscape. Decided to go right up to Whistler where I could hike in the mountains and surround myself with an entire community that is all about the great outdoors. Whistler is a small resort village that became globally known for being the home of the 2010 Winter Olympics. It is about a 2.5 hr drive north of Vancouver, located in the Coast Mountain Range. Whistler Mountain and Blackcomb Mountain are open all year long for skiing, hiking, mountain biking, trail running, and summer glacial skiing. But there are also many other mountains in the area to explore. I arrived just as spring had, and the smell of spruce and pine filled the crisp mountain air. I’m hiking every day and I just LOVE it! Hiking is definitely my exercise of choice, although I am doing a little running and some other stuff just to round it out. Yes, I’ve seen bears, but they are black bears – they don’t eat people, only plants. There are no grizzly bears here so it’s pretty safe. I’ve joined a group here that is run by an incredibly knowledgeable woman, she is actually a 3-time Top Canadian Trainer award winner and nutritionist. So I’ve been learning all about food, digestion, macronutrients, and the “How To Live a Healthy Lifestyle” part of my journey that has been missing from most of my life. So, yeah, I’m kicking ass. And I can’t think of a more beautiful place to be doing this.

This furry little guy was just on the side of the road, happily eating the dandelions. We pulled up alongside him, rolled down the car window, and he didn’t even flinch. Canadian safari!

This is Lost Lake. I boot around this lake 3x/week because it’s exactly 1 mile around. I also hike the trails behind it. Gorgeous.
The village of Whistler is adorable, lots of shops and restaurants. Much of it was built, or I should say “beautified” for the 2010 Olympics, so it’s really lovely to just walk around and people watch. On weekends there are often live bands playing at the Olympic Rings…
I’ve spent 6 wonderful weeks here in the mountains of Whistler and I am ready to move on! Flying down to San Francisco to investigate a business opportunity that I’ve been working on. Yeah, it’s time to get back to work. It’s been an incredible tour of the world, and though I have not yet found my “home”, I am ready to find it and put down some roots! I am the luckiest person in the world to have done what I’ve done, seen what I’ve seen, and experienced so many great people and places. It has cost about double what I thought it would, but I have no regrets. The biggest lessons I’ve learned from all of this are:
1. Take opportunities that come your way, even if they are outside of your comfort zone. That is how you learn and grow.
2. People around the world are, much more often than not, kind, generous, helpful, and honest.
3. A smile goes a long way and has the power to resonate for longer than it took to do it. And it is universal.
4. Getting lost is sometimes better than following the known path…you will find your destination with some unplanned surprises along the way.
5. Don’t ever be afraid to go alone…sometimes being quiet and just observing is what you need. Other times, you will find your voice to make new friends.
6. Helping others makes me feel richer, in so many ways.
7. Being helped by others makes me feel richer, in so many ways.
8. I have the most supportive, responsible, reliable, always-there-for-me BEST friends and family in the entire world. I could not have done this trip without them and my gratitude for them knows no limits. I must give a special shout out to one person in particular, who literally took care of my “life” while I was gone. Laurie, you are a gift that I am sooo grateful for. Are YOU ready yet?? I also have a network of incredible Facebook friends and family that have cheered me on through this journey and who I would LOVE to hug IN PERSON for helping me on a daily basis just by reaching out to me and letting me know they’re “with” me.
9. I have missed my two children more than anything, and cannot wait to throw my arms around them ( I may never let go!). I know people always say their kids are the most important thing in their lives, but I know the truth in that statement more powerfully than any other time in my life. They are my reason for most things that I do, and I only hope that I inspire them to follow their dreams however grand they may be, and to know that YES THEY CAN!!
10. And lastly, I’ve learned that the journey is a long one, but the destinations are closer than they appear and definitely within my grasp. In order to remain interested and interesting, I must continue to grow and learn. Change is good. I’m looking forward to the next chapter with an open heart and an open mind, excited for what lies ahead.
We took the fast train from Florence to Rome on Monday morning. I love that train. It pulls out of the station and instantly puts on a picture show of Tuscan hills and fields, country houses, and the gorgeous golden and earth tones of the Florentine landscape. One hour and 18 minutes later, it pulls into Roma Termini. The US is sooo far behind the rest of the world in sooo many ways!!!
We quickly grabbed a taxi, loaded up our luggage, and headed to the hotel. Not just any hotel, oh no. My extremely generous ex-step-brother-in-law booked us at the St. Regis so we could live like queens for 2 days and nights. It was gorgeous!
We had A LOT to do, so we immediately headed out to walk the city. First destination, the famous Spanish steps at the Piazza di Spagna. The steps, built 1723-1725, are the widest staircase in all of Europe.
Next stop – lunch!
And then…

We made our wishes and with our backs to the fountain threw our coins in over our shoulders. I forgot to specify a time limit on my wish…oh man…
After the pantheon, we found ourselves exploring some ridiculously gorgeous churches. They didn’t look like anything from the outside, but on the inside….holy….mother…of ….whatever….just have a look.

This is actually Michelangelo’s statue of Jesus Christ. Yeah, Micky’s work is all over Rome. Seems he was a busy guy back in the day. Lots of commissions.

This is another church we happened upon. We had to pick our jaws up off the floor. The painted walls and ceilings are beyond words.
The final destination of this long walk was the Colosseum, and as we walked toward it we got to view many of the ancient Roman relics and ruins that have been unearthed since that time.

The Roman Forum, a rectangular plaza that housed many ancient Roman buildings that made up the center of ancient Rome.
And finally…

Most of the marble from the original facade had been destroyed from earthquakes and fires and was reused in other buildings, but some ruins still remain.

By the late 6th C, these vaulted spaces under the arcades were converted to workshops and housing until the 12th century.

We walked all the way around this incredible structure. So lucky to be able to see and appreciate it!
What a day!! We were exhausted by the time we got back to the castle…I mean, the hotel…and quickly fell asleep for a good 2 hour nap! But we were able to get ourselves up and moving for dinner…found this adorable little local spot that had the best eggplant parmesan ever!!! And meatballs. And wine. Fantastico!
The next day was all about the Vatican. We had hired a guide to take us through which, in hindsight, was the smartest thing ever, because you skip all the lines!! And of course, you get educated!!! So our guide, we called him Daniel the entire day until we were saying our goodbyes and he gave us his card which read “Eugenio”, met us at the hotel and we all grabbed a taxi together and drove to the country of the Vatican. Did you know the Vatican is its own country? I didn’t! Pretty cool, ay? So the Vatican was a pretty busy place that day because 2 popes, John XXIII and John Paul II, were canonized two days prior and 800,000 Catholic pilgrims came to witness it in St. Peter’s square, while another 500,000 watched it on giant screens set up all around the streets of Rome. We were lucky to be there at this important time! John Paul II was the reigning pope for much of my life (1978-2005) and our timed visit to St. Peter’s allowed us to be among the first to view their final resting places that are now made public in St. Peter’s Cathedral.

The architecture is the finest I’ve ever seen. Yes, ever. Look how this arch twists to expose the interior only on the right side.

This piece is what influenced Michelangelo in creating all of his works. He was asked to “fix” this, and his reply was something like “I can’t. It’s already perfect.” He used this as his model for the human form. The chiseled chest, the muscular thighs are all seen in his sculptures.

This is a HUGE Roman bath. It’s hard to see the actual scale here, but it’s enormous and it’s all been carved out of a single piece of marble.

I don’t know how this is carved from a block of stone. It’s interesting to note that Mary is young and beautiful here, although Jesus was already 33 when he was crucified. But Michelangelo either wanted to convey the youthfulness of being chaste, or he was influenced by Dante’s poem Paradiso pertaining to the Trinity, ” Virgin mother, daughter of your son”. Since Christ is one of the three figures of Trinity, she would be his daughter, but she also bore him.

Kim and me in front of the chairs that sat the VIP at the canonization of the 2 popes at St. Peter’s Cathedral.

On our walk back from the Vatican, we stopped at Castel Sant’Angelo, Castle of the Holy Angel, and the Bridge of Angels.

This is Michelangelo’s Moses, that was commissioned by Pope Julius II for his tomb. It is in the church of San Pietro in Vincoli which also houses St. Peter’s chains. This was our last stop after the Vatican.
So this is how it ends…..
Ciao, Italia.
My third week of Italian language school had Miyuki and I saying farewell to Sandra, and hello to Hiroko, also from Japan. Hiroko is like a tiny, adorable, innocent schoolgirl with lots of pep and smiles. I thought she was 18, and was shocked that she is actually 27! She came to Florence to learn to speak Italian because she works in a fruit market in Japan and wants to work in Milan’s fruit market and converse with her customers. She speaks very little English, so Miyuki did a lot of translating for her. But she was always happy tag along, wherever we went. We agreed to rent a car for a day and drive through Tuscany.
It was raining on and off, but the undulating waves of green carpet that sprawled over the hills and valleys were still breathtaking at every turn as we headed south out of Florence. Our first destination was Greve, or “Greve-in-Chianti” as it is formally called. Just before entering the town of Greve, we stopped at Castello da Verrazzano. The castle is known for being the birthplace of the family Verrazzano to which the Navigator Giovanni belonged. Giovanni Verrazzano founded the bay of New York, and much of the east coast of North America. The Verrazzano bridge was named after him in 1964. So, for me, I had a connection with this place!! We did a wine tasting and an olive oil tasting, and I bought 3 bottles of their big Tuscan Red to bring home and enjoy.
Greve is a small medieval town that has a wonderful piazza which is the focal point of the town. There is a Saturday market every week and we caught the tail end of it, just in time to buy some of the sweetest peas-in-the-pod I’ve ever tasted. Then we went to the famous Antica Macelleria Falorni, a Tuscan butcher shop that has been there since 1729. Wow. Wow. And wow. Best prosciutto and salami I’ve ever had in my entire life. We ordered a tasting plate of a bunch of things and let our taste buds explode.
Next destination was Siena. I had been through Tuscany before, but never made it down to Siena, so I was anxious to see what I had heard is Tuscany’s loveliest medieval city. And rumors turned out to be true. Siena is a beautiful, steep city that sits on 3 hills. The central Piazza, known as the Piazza del Campo, is where the famous Palio horse race is run twice every summer. We climbed the hills and walked the twisty streets, stopped for some gelato at Grom (chocolate noir – to die for), and made our way to Siena’s Duomo. This cathedral, built in 1215, was the highlight of Siena for me. I loved the gothic details, the banded black and white marble, and the floor panels which are inlaid marble mosaic “paintings” done by the leading artists from 1369 -1547. The cathedral also has Donatello’s St. John the Baptiste, as well as many other major sculptures and works of art. The Piccolomini Library houses these ancient books and it is so fascinating to see the writing in these books, all done by hand of course, but perfection! Have a look.
After touring Siena, we looped our way back north but took a western detour in order to see the beautiful Tuscan village of San Gimignano, famous for its medieval architecture and its many tall towers. It was already twilight when we arrived, and drizzling, but that didn’t stop us from walking from one end to the other of this sweet, walled village. The wet pavement and the night lights only made the city sparkle that much more. The shops are much more artisan-like here, with owners who have actually made the wares inside. The food shops are naturally beautiful and abundant, with baskets of produce or what have you. There is a delicious bakery here, Pasticceria Armando e Marcella, which of course we indulged in. Unfortunately, the churches were closed for the evening, so I will just have to return. As if I need an excuse.
Driving back home in our little Fiat500 was bittersweet. I love the Tuscan countryside and wanted so badly to spend more time there. Just to cap off an already fabulous day, we had dinner at Trattoria del Carmine, just a few blocks from my apt, which seriously has the best – the best (dare I say it again?) Spaghetti Arrabiatta in the entire world. Heaven.
Time has flown by….feels like just yesterday that I was walking the streets of Florence smiling from ear to ear from the sites, sounds, and smells of my most favorite city. Today, I’m still smiling at times…although I more than likely have my game face on. No longer in Florence, but sooo much more to share about my time there. I know these next few posts on Florence have been very delayed, but I’m actually smiling as I write and my mind drifts back there…
One of the most beautiful things about Florence is the language. I found a school, Centro Fiorenza, just a few blocks from my apartment that fit me perfectly. This is strictly a school that teaches Italian language, all different levels, to whoever wants to learn. I’ve always loved learning and the whole school environment thing so I was thrilled to have this opportunity to learn the language intensively. Classes met every day, M-F, for 4 hours, and I opted to add a couple extra hours onto my first week as well. My insegnante (teacher) Mario was excellent! From the moment he walked into the classroom on day one, we were speaking Italian. “Buongiorno! Mi chiamo Marco! E tu?” “Mi chiamo Meryl” “Piacere, Meryl. Dove va?”…..and on and on. I loved all of it! After class I would stop at my little corner store and try to converse with my new friends Simone, Brunilde and Sabrina. We laughed when I made no sense and applauded when I got it right. I met some fabulous people in my class too – my first week, there were 3 of us – me, Miyuki from Japan, and Anya from Germany. Miyuki is 30, traveling solo through Italy for about 2 months, and then off to the UK and then back to Japan. She is lovely and open and eager to learn. Anya is 42, a German fashion photographer – incredibly talented – and has an Italian boyfriend now so she really wants to speak the language, even though he speaks German and English perfectly. Anya was in Florence only for the one week with her friend (another Anya) who was studying painting while she learned to speak. But of course we all found time to be social and go out for dinner and drinks.
My second week, Anya left us and was replaced by Sandra, also from Germany, and also traveling with a friend who was writing a book while she studied Italian.

Me and Sandra. The only reason we took this picture is because we thought the guy behind us was cute and wanted to see him better.
One free morning, Miyuki, Sandra, her friend and I decided to take a 20 minute bus ride to visit the beautiful town of Fiesole. Fiesole is perched high up on the top of a mountain and has a glorious view of Tuscany and the city of Florence. It’s perfect to stroll around for a couple of hours. Here’s my pics.

This is a cemetery – if you look closely at the graves, they each have a picture of the buried! My first thought was…who gets to choose the picture!
On Saturday, Miyuki and I decided to take the train to Lucca, about an hour and a half west of Florence near the Tyrrhenian Sea. Lucca is a picturesque, beautiful Tuscan city that is famous for its Rennaissance-era walls that surround it. These walls are so wide that cars can actually drive on them, but these days they are used for strolling, biking, jogging, and just hanging out. It’s like an elevated garden and track that surrounds this small city. Lucca is also the birthplace of the great composer Puccini (Madame Butterfly and La Boheme). Getting there is very easy, one fast train which lets you off just outside the walls. And the city is so small that you can walk the whole thing in a day. So off we went!

We thought this was Puccini’s birthplace and home but we were wrong…it’s another major composer though.
Lucca has a big music festival during the summer…this year’s headlining acts include The Eagles, Jeff Beck, The Tedeschi Trucks Band, The Backstreet Boys and others…wish I was there!!!!
No introduction needed – I just wish I could sit and gaze at this piece of perfection for endless hours – I KNOW I would catch him moving! Honestly, instant tears welled up in my eyes when I rested them on his perfect form. Amazing to see with my own eyes.
My life often feels like a movie. And yet, it’s real. I wake up each morning to a sunny view of the Piazza della Passera, venture out my door to the Caffe degli Artigliani across the street for my morning cappuccino as I stand at the bar like a real Italian and drink it within 2 minutes. Then I’m off to stroll the cobblestone streets of Florence. Sometimes I wander through the museums, sometimes I sit on a bench with a cup of gelato (GROM is heaven), sometimes I wind up back in my apt and listen to the man on the accordion below my window in the piazza pipe out Italian tunes. I’ve grown to love the music of Ludovico Enaudi, and I am always happy with a bottle of Brunello di Montalcino. The food here….well….it’s the best in the world.
I live in the Oltrarno neighborhood of Florence, which is the south side of the Arno River (it literally means “across the Arno”) and it is my favorite area in all of Florence. It is the “true” Florence, where the locals live, where the shopkeepers are real and the craftsmen work, and the restaurants are less expensive and much less touristy. Most people who visit Florence fall in love with this area and delight in its less-than-touristy ways, but they booked hotels in the touristy areas because that’s where most of the hotels are. I got lucky, what can I say. I live a 5-minute walk from the Ponte Vecchio, a 5-minute walk from the Pitti Palace and Boboli Gardens, and anywhere from 1-10 minutes to a multitude of great trattorias, restaurants and whatever else I desire.
I have made friends with many of the local shopkeepers here, and they have only confirmed my love of the Italian people. There is no other place on earth where the people are warmer, friendlier, more helpful, and just all around heartfelt and genuinely good! On one of my first days, I ventured into a shop (Domi Textile & Design) as I was looking for some pillows to spruce up my sofa. The owner, Ariel, and I began a conversation about designers from America and the state of the economy in Italy…after an hour, he was writing down phone numbers for me and telling me, in all honesty, that I should consider “this”, meaning, him and his store, a place where I can always come if I need anything or have any questions. As he said, “like family!”. And he meant it. I went to him when I needed help translating a message in Italian about a replacement to my broken Kindle and it being stuck in customs. He didn’t JUST translate for me – Ariel picked up his phone, made a bunch of phone calls to UPS, to the customs office, and helped solve it. I consider the 3 young owners of Toscani, my corner gourmet shop, Sabrina, Brunilde, and Simone, my friends too. They are always happy and smiling and make me light up each and every time I walk in there. They practice my Italian with me and we laugh at my progress – or rather, my mistakes. They are full of life and love, and I could sit in their shop all day and just watch them interact with their customers and with each other. And Aldo and Sonia, the owners of La Pelle, a fabulous leather store just steps from the Ponte Vecchio, have also been lovely to me. They’ve been there for 30 years – they are truly wonderful and honest and have beautiful leather – and python!!
So let’s talk about food. For starters, Italians don’t eat breakfast. They have a cafe (espresso) and that’s it. IF they eat anything, it’s sweet – dolce – a pastry of some sort, be it a croissant or a doughnut, or a creme-filled something. There are no places to get eggs of any kind, except maybe a hotel that is catering to the traveler. We Americans have been trained to believe breakfast is the most important meal of the day, so god forbid we skip it! I’ve gotten used to buying my own fruit at the market – strawberries, raspberries, blueberries, and bananas – and that’s what I eat everyday.
The next meal of the day, lunch – pranzo – is the most important one here. It’s why all the shops close for 3 hours each and every day without fail. They could care less if you are shopping – they’ll throw you out at 12:30 and tell you to return at 3:30 – and if they lose the sale, whatever. Trattorias all serve some form of what we know as a ham and cheese sandwich. Proscuitto, Brasaola, Speck or Salami are the main meats, and Pecorino or Mozzerella are the main cheeses for this “panino” which is usually made on a thin Italian bread called schiacciata, which is like a thin foccacia. It’s delicious, but usually needs some olive oil and salt drizzled on it if eaten alone. The thing about Florentine bread is that it is made without salt – something that started back in the Middle Ages when salt was heavily taxed, but continued due to Florentine pride. Dante wrote about it, so we know it goes wayyyy back and was notable! Many of Tuscany’s foods are already heavily seasoned so unsalted bread is actually a better compliment! For those who want to dine, there are always soups – Pasta Faggiole, of course, or Ribolitta which is a Tuscan bread and vegetable soup made with day-old bread. Yum! Florentines are famous for their “Bistecca” – a thick cut of T-bone steak, perfectly seasoned, crispy on the outside, and rare on the inside. Just like Peter Lugar’s, but maybe less butter? And as far as pasta goes…..I could cry from joy each and every time I eat it, which is practically every day. I’ve never had perfect pasta until I came here. We Americans overcook everything! My favorite is probably Pappardelle with Duck Ragu from Il Santo Bevitore. Or maybe Spaghetti Arrabiata from Trattoria del Carmine. Although the ravioli at La Giostra was unreal…do I really have to choose?
Dinner here is either eaten very late, or not at all, and is replaced by “aperitivo” which, in Italy, includes a drink and a help-yourself buffet of samplings of food. At local trattoria’s, these could consist of platters of proscuitto, salami, cheese, bowls of risotto or pasta, vegetables, roasted or in salads, bite-sized pannini, bite-sized pizzas, bruschetta, or a multitude of other things. The aperitivo is customary here and lasts from approx 6pm – 9pm. Who needs dinner after this? Of course, you are always welcome to order dinner, which is basically the same menu as lunch.
Of course, I could write for decades about the food here. And the wine. And the beautiful people. And the beautiful countryside. And I plan to! But maybe for now, my pictures will do my words some justice.
Ciao, for now. Aperitivo time.
Cobblestone streets and long walks on the Arno,
Outdoor cafes and a glass of Barolo,
Musicians play, the accordion sings,
These are a few of my favorite things….
Flowers in baskets and hot cappuccino,
Carmel gelato and aged pecorino,
Wide open windows and church bells that ring,
These are a few of my favorite things…
When I’m lonely, when it’s silent, when I’m feeling sad…
I simply remember I’m here in Firenze
And then I don’t feeeeeeel soooo bad!!

As the train pulled out of the station in Rome and headed to Florence, the sun rose just at the perfect moment.
More to come…
I’m a beach girl. And I love to sail. Southern Thailand is all about the beauty of the sand and the water, and I was on my way to see some of the most beautiful Thai beaches and diving sites aboard the White Manta, a 120-foot motor yacht hosting 24 divers on a 5-day live-aboard tour of the Similan Islands in the Andaman Sea. Woo hoooo!! Flew from Bangkok to Phuket, was picked up at the airport by the White Manna crew, and drove to Koh Tao to board this great vessel. She is huge – 24 divers and a crew of 19, you never once felt crowded! My roomie was (is!) awesome – Jo from Bath, England – we were laughing right away and sharing middle-of-the-night snacks and chats from day one. I was the only snorkeler – this was a serious dive boat, and with 4 dives per day, no one had the energy to snorkel in between dives – so I went out everyday on my own but with one of the guys that drove the dingy to chaperone so I was never really alone. Having snorkeled the Great Barrier Reef, I have to say this wasn’t as brilliant, but I did get the biggest joy ever seeing the GIANT MANTA RAY swim just beneath me! I just held my heart – tried not to hold my breath – as he swam so elegantly and majestically by. Enormous!! Wow!! I really didn’t need to see anything after that. Although, all my mates saw Whale Sharks and I didn’t. No complaints, loved it all. By the way, the food was AWESOME on this boat!! I think the best Thai I had in Thailand!!
The Similan Islands are seriously in my top 5 most gorgeous beaches ever in the world. Pure white sand like powder, clear blue water, heaven. We also went to Koh Bon, Koh Tachai, Koh Surin, and Richelieu Rock. And again, I saw some of the most beautiful sunsets ever.

Looks like a sail, ay? If you look closely, you can see the people who have hiked up to it – they’re teenie!
My last three days were spent in Nai Harn, which is an area in southern Phuket. Phuket is a large island, and from everything I had heard, I was NOT going to like the scene there. But after speaking further with people, there are places that are not all built-up with high-rise hotels and loads of people, and I absolutely LOVED this area. I stayed at The Royal Phuket Yacht Club – and no, it was not cheap, but it was wonderful. It sits on a long curved beach that feels very much like a beach in the south of France, dotted with different colored umbrellas and people from different countries, many European. Just a couple of photos here…
And now…..I’m finally…..off to ITALY!!!!
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